feat(db): mesh data model — meshes, members, invites, audit log

- pgSchema "mesh" with 4 tables isolating the peer mesh domain
- Enums: visibility, transport, tier, role
- audit_log is metadata-only (E2E encryption enforced at broker/client)
- Cascade on mesh delete, soft-delete via archivedAt/revokedAt

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

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